In case you missed the news – on Friday I released my first book. Here’s what I learnt from writing a book:
1. Write what you know – it’s easier that way.
That’s what all the best writing experts will tell you: write what you know. And I know the book of Ruth.
I was surprised by how quickly this came together in comparison with my still-slogging ME book, but I shouldn’t have been. Though I know my own story, I am still discovering more about the science of ME, and science was never my strong point. But the story of Ruth and I? – we go way back.
My love affair with the book of Ruth started with a Bible Study as a teenager in my youth leader’s apartment. For the third chapter, where Ruth meets Boaz on the threshing floor, we split into boys and girls’ groups: the boys talked about how they would have felt as Boaz, we girls talked about how we would have felt as Ruth, and then we compared notes at the end. I remember that the room was a narrow lounge-diner, and we were happily squashed up on the sofas and sprawled on big cushions on the floor.
I was sixteen, and an eternal romantic – I fell in love with the love story, the gentlemanly and godly attitude of Boaz (a good Christian girl’s ultimate crush). I remember laughing (internally, not aloud) at the discovery that someone who refused to be a kinsman-redeemer would remove his sandal and become known as the ‘unsandalled’. More than that, that Bible study planted a seed, a whisper, that God could bring hope, love and restoration in lives that had previously seemed empty. I treasured it up in my heart.
2. The first draft is always the worst thing you’ve ever read.
I discovered the gut-wrenching experience of looking back at writing you previously thought was pretty good, only to discover that it is a round brown turd of words, good for only throwing in the bin. Every writer talks about this, but I honestly thought my first draft would be the exception. (I’m very happy with the final draft, but there’s always the possibility that in five years’ time I’ll feel that same ‘oh no! did I really write this?? – it’s terrible.” anguish. Cue dramatic sigh: Ah, me! Alas! it’s so hard to be a writer…)
3. The only thing that will get you through the editing process is a deadline.
I had set myself a deadline, and – honestly – if it hadn’t been for that deadline I would have just thrown the whole thing into the bin, relieved that it had never seen the light of day. The whole experience transported me back into that frantic anxiety and strange exhilaration of exams and dissertation deadlines. As a perfectionist, it is often the way I can do things: I trick myself into doing the impossible task, because I know I have to do it by a certain time. I will remember this for the future – the tyranny of the deadline is actually a writer’s friend.
4. It really, really helps to have someone on hand who is a good artist, designer, computer genius and mailchimp expert.
There’s no way I would have been able to do this whole self-publishing lark if it weren’t for Jon. We discovered that Scrivener, although wonderful for drafting, is counter-intuitive and frustratingly limited in the production stages, and each heading font had to be changed individually, each line space adjusted without being able to see the full layout. The front cover is designed by Jon (who worked as a web designer many moons ago), and features a detail of one of Jon’s paintings, Patchwork Sea.
5. Like life, writing a book is hard, but good.
In the middle of all this book-madness, I had a teacher-friend round for a chat. My eyelids were aching from holding themselves open, staring intensely without blinking, as though to prove how wide-awake I was. (My ME was actually not too bad; though my walking is still a bit dodgy, my concentration levels had picked up significantly since the relapse.) It wasn’t so much ME-tired as your common garden variety working-your-brain-till-it-pops-tired, and we had the following conversation.
Her:…YES! You’re so right. That’s it in a nutshell: life is HARD, but life is GOOD.
Me (eyes wide open with this amazing discovery): Oh my GOODNESS. That is the height of profundity. Let’s just pause: I feel like we’re experiencing a moment of ELECTRIC POETRY. I really do.
Her: Yes! It’s like we’ve discovered this NUTMEG OF TRUTH. Nutmeg… Not nutmeg – that’s that spice you grate…
Me: I TOTALLY know what you mean. Golden nugget. Of truth. Life is HARD, and GOOD.
Me: Mmmm.. chicken nuggets.
(It may be necessary to clarify that there was no alcohol, drugs or dodgy-looking fughi involved in our conversation, it was all the Power Of Exhaustion – I can recommend it for moments of revelation).
Life is hard, and life is good. Writing a book is hard, and writing a book is also very, very good. Though this is a short, read-it-in-half-an-hour book, it gives me confidence for the longer projects. I’d do it all over again in a heartbeat. (But perhaps when my eyes are not so bloodshot…)
Thank you all for being part of this crazy journey.
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- I don’t have a Kindle or an e-reader, can I read it? Yes – click on the PDF version, and you can read it on a computer, tablet or smart phone.
- How do I get the book onto my Kindle? Check your settings: you have a Kindle email. Email the .mobi (Kindle) file to this email address, making sure that you’ve marked the email address you’ve sent it from as a whitelisted address. You should be able to find out more in http://amazon.com/myk or http://amazon.co.uk/myk
- Will it be available in print? Yes – it will go up on Amazon sometime next week [watch this space], and will cost c. £3.99.
- Will it be available in the US? Yes – look out for it on Amazon.com sometime next week. I will announce it!
- How long is the book? it’s about 40 pages, the length of a Kindle Single, read-it-in-half-an-hour short book.
- For how long will it be available free of charge when you subscribe to a newsletter at Thorns and Gold? I haven’t got a definite timeframe, but certainly for the next two months.
“The tyranny of the deadline is actually a writer’s friend.” 5 lessons I learned by writing a book– @Tanya_Marlow:
“Trick yourself into doing the impossible task” – and other tips for writing your first book – @Tanya_Marlow:
“Life is hard, but good” – and other ‘nutmegs of truth’ discovered whilst writing a book – @Tanya_Marlow:
Over to you:
- What things have you learnt from writing?
- What crazy things have you said when extremely tired??