What I’m Into (September 2015)

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In beautiful Dartmouth


 
Every single day of sunshine in September feels to me like an act of grace. This September followed a very soggy August, and every day I was able to be in the garden, enjoying the sun, I felt thankful. September has been about blackberry-picking with my boy, and finding light in unexpected places.
 

My best friend came to visit me after being away for more than a year in Japan. It was such a gift to see her after such a long time, and to catch up on everything.
 
The boy has a new obsession with making things and doing science experiments. I am good at neither. This means I regularly let him loose with some paper plates, a yellow napkin and an extravagant quantity of sellotape, and call it ‘craft-time’, and when we’re in the garden I let him fill a large bowl with water, drop various inanimate objects into it, and call it scientific exploration. We are both inordinately happy with this arrangement.
 

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“Mummy – this is for you and you can keep it FOREVER”


 
This month I was well enough to leave the house twice! Hurrah!
 
The first time was to Dartmouth, and a meander through some art and book shops. The second time I ventured out to see the sea and went out for a meal with Jon and the boy. Praise the Lord for his abundant mercies in providing restaurants that hand out colouring pencils and paper before the starters have arrived, and that cater for the paleo diet.
 
Books
 
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Eve – Wm Paul Young. You probably know this author from his previous book, ‘The Shack’. Like his previous book, it is a fictional story that follows a character who has been through suffering (this time it is themes of rape rather than murder), who has a supernatural encounter and emerges with a transformed outlook. Where it differs from The Shack is that rather than tackling theology in the abstract, it seeks to retell the story of Eden (Genesis 1-4).

Some of his theological interpretations I really appreciated; others I felt missed the mark. I felt his interpretation of the Fall was a little too easy on Eve and a little too hard on Adam – but as Milton used his fictional retelling of the Fall (Paradise Lost) to do the opposite, I figure it’s about time someone evened up the score. The book almost lost me in a couple of places, but it is well worth persevering. What this book and The Shack does best is to act as a discussion starter and rekindle a wonder of the story and a sense of God’s love for the broken – and it does this job excellently. Get it from Amazon.co.uk £10.99 or Wordery (UK) £9.24, or Amazon.com (US) $8.80.

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Resilient – Your invitation to a Jesus-Shaped Life – Sheridan Voysey. This is a collection of devotions on the Sermon on the Mount. Sheridan is a master writer of devotions: his tone is pastoral without being sentimental; his illustrations are rooted in real life, and he digs deep into the word without being over-intellectual. It is the classic devotional style: a verse at the beginning to reflect upon, with a short but meaty commentary, and questions or quotes at the end. It doesn’t simply go through the Sermon on the Mount, but dots around using several themes in the sermon. It is a thoughtful and enjoyable journey, and great if you’re looking for devotional material. It’s out on 21st October, so add it to your wishlist – from Amazon.co.uk or get it from Amazon.com (US) $13.99.

or Discovery House (UK) £8.50 now
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Finding Myself in Britain – Amy Boucher Pye. Every now and again it is a good thing to take a look at our culture through the eyes of an outsider – and Amy Boucher Pye does just this in her book on British society. As an American who married an English vicar, she has a fresh perspective on the things we take for granted – such as our obsession with tea, our relationship with the royal family and remembrance day, our approach to Christmas. It follows through a year and has snippets of her story mixed with fun miscellany about our society, and a few spiritual reflections on being a foreigner in a new culture.

It is a thoroughly enjoyable trip through some of our traditions and cultures, and made me reflect on how we treat those of a different culture, and particularly Americans. Her writing is conversational and an easy, pleasurable read, and this is exactly the kind of thing that you would read (ironically enough) whilst drinking a cup of tea – whimsical and thought-provoking in equal measure. (And look out for my name in the acknowledgements…) One for Brits, Anglophiles, and anyone who has ever lived abroad.  Get it from Amazon.co.uk £9.99 or Wordery (UK) £7.91, or Amazon.com (US) $9.82 (and watch out for a giveaway on the blog SOON!) 

Still reading:

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Wearing God – Lauren Winner. This book takes a fresh look at the Bible’s metaphors for God in order to meet with God afresh. The Bible doesn’t just describe God as ’Shepherd, Father, King’ but as clothes (think ‘clothe yourself with Christ’), bread, a labouring woman, fire. I have a hardback copy, which I recommend, because I am underlining so much, and will want to return to it again and again. Her writing is both elegant and theologically rich. I am taking my time with this, enjoying every well-crafted chapter, soaking in her thought-provoking observations. One of my favourite books this year – it’s just so artfully done. Pricey, but worth every penny. Get it from Amazon.co.uk £14.99 or Wordery (UK) £11.87, or Amazon.com (US) $19.07.

And also reading advanced reader copies of: Out of Sorts – Sarah Bessey, Coming Clean – Seth Haines, Knowing the Heretics – Justin Holcomb, The Message 100. There are some good books coming soon!

Getting ready to go out of the house!

Getting ready to go out of the house!

Films

  • Silver Linings Playbook – finally seen this. Love love loved it. It’s such a beautiful unconventional love story, and treats mental illness with a compassionate, whimsical humour. It’s the kind of thing that shouldn’t work but really does. HIT.
  • United 93 I’m still traumatised by this film about the only aeroplane hijacked by the 9/11 hijackers that didn’t make its intended target. artistically, it’s fascinating. I thought it would follow the usual ‘disaster movie’ format by highlighting a few stories, getting us into the characters. It doesn’t. We are robbed of the chance to get to know any of the characters and their backstories, and instead we just hear snatches of conversation on the plane, then in the air control station. Because of its realistic feel, when the plane goes down it feels less like a film and more like you are eavesdropping on footage that ought not to have been released. It felt voyeuristic rather than redemptive. I would NOT recommend this to frequent fliers.. MISS.
  • Street Dance 2 – great film! Ultimate comfort watching. HIT (if you like that sort of thing…)
  • Unknown – I watched this excellent thriller again. Happily, I had forgotten the plot twist. HIT.
  • BBC’s Lady Chatterley’s Lover terrible. I found myself siding with the perfectly reasonable husband rather than the slightly grumpy lover, which made the conclusion a little unpalatable. This had all the right ingredients, but didn’t work. MISS.
  • The Bourne legacygreat sequel with a new ‘Bourne’. I’m a fan (though it felt like it ended abruptly). HIT.
    The Hurt Locker – the dude who plays the new ‘Bourne’ was also in this film about a small company of American soldiers in Iraq who defuse bombs for a living. As I know someone who used to do exactly that, I had an extra interest in it. What strikes you is the mad intensity of a tour abroad. It’s artfully done and brilliantly acted – HIT.

TV

  • Odyssey – Jon and I binge-watched this thriller series starring Anna Friel. It was utterly gripping – really sorry to hear they’re not doing a second series, because this was awesome. (Also, halfway through I thought, ‘that lawyer dude is so pale he could be a vampire’ – and in that second I realised where I’d seen him before: the Twilight series.)
  • Nashville – I’m rooting for Rayna and Deacon.
  • Jane the Virgin – reached the end of series one. OH MY GOODNESS. I am still traumatised by the final thirty-second cliffhanger.
  • New Girl – still loving this series. Favourite quote recently – Nadia, the world’s most unsuitable mother-to-be, on looking at a cot for the first time – “Where is top for baby cage?”

Surprises

One of these was coloured by the boy. Guess which?

One of these was coloured by the boy. Guess which?

I had two unexpected gifts this month. One amazing friend bought me a colouring book, so I’m finally getting in on the trend (and discovering how bad I am at colouring within the lines…) It’s fun doing it together with the boy.

And another amazing friend, who knew I couldn’t be at the Greenbelt conference, gave me Greenbelt in an envelope – all the talks on a drive plus instructions for having the more ‘authentic’ Greenbelt experience (i.e. wet and freezing). I’m looking forward to spending time enjoying a wide variety of talks, espeically the ones by Paula Gooder and Katharine Welby-Roberts.

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Best Joke Ever ( by Jon Marlow)
Q: Why do owls not like to go on dates in the rain?
A: Because it’s too wet to woo.

(The best bits and blogs for September were so long that I’ll do them in a separate post on Friday.)

On the blog

Thanks for staying with me while I went on a crazy marathon guest-posting tour. There were lots of popular posts this month, including:

Plus, the ever-popular God and Suffering stories restarted for another season – check them out if you haven’t already.

And finally… Have you read my book yet? If you have enjoyed it, I would love you forever if you could leave even a one-sentence review on Amazon and/or Goodreads. It would be amazing if I could have 50 reviews on Amazon.co.uk and 15 reviews on Amazon.com by the end of the year.
If you haven’t yet read it, please do download it for FREE! (See below).

I’m linking up with Leigh Kramer for her magnificent What I’m Into Linkup.

I received a free advanced copy of many of the books above in exchange for my honest review, which these all are. This post contains Amazon and Wordery affiliate links, which means if you click through to Amazon.co.uk  Wordery.com or Amazon.com from this site and buy absolutely anything in the worldyou help this site, at no extra cost to you. 

Over to you:

  • What have you been into this September?

 

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11 Responses to What I’m Into (September 2015)

  1. Mark Allman 9th October, 2015 at 6:54 pm #

    I am glad you were able to get out!! I finished reading that book I mentioned last month The Martin. It was great and I hope to see the movie in the next couple of weeks. Great new pictures Tanya. Our whole family have enjoyed all of the movies all 4 of them. I think that is how science experiments are really done. You don’t know what you are doing but you start putting stuff together and see what happens!! 🙂 New show I am enjoying this fall is called The Blindspot.

    • Tanya Marlow 14th October, 2015 at 11:52 am #

      I’m glad you’ve be having a good month! The Blindspot – hmm… Let me guess – is it a science fiction? 🙂

      By the way – do you watch The Big Bang Theory? I had always seen snatches and it really annoyed me, but now I’m into it and it’s quite fun.

  2. Megan Hall 9th October, 2015 at 3:17 am #

    I need to read Finding Myself in Britain – Amy Boucher PyeI. know so many Americans and British people dating. I really would be interested in this. We both speak English but our cultures are so different. It is weird because I have friends from france that move to America and it is not that much of a change so it is interesting it is for the two countries who speak english.

    • Tanya Marlow 14th October, 2015 at 11:50 am #

      Yes! Wasn’t it Bill Bryson who described britain and America as ‘two countries separated by a common language’?? I love Bill Bryson’s stuff. Definitely get Amy Boucher Pye’s book. And from an English perspective, I’d recommend Watching the English by Kate Fox. It’s one of those books that’s stayed with me – has made sense of my own country’s quirkiness!

  3. Rebecka 8th October, 2015 at 10:39 pm #

    Sounds like you had a nice, but busy, September. So happy you were well enough to leave the house twice! 🙂
    I’m so impressed you can remember what you’ve read and watched. I can barely remember what I did yesterday. (Also, this is a bit embarrassing but I have a list of the TV series I follow and what day they air so I don’t forget to watch them…)

    I do remember knitting a hat though, and I must confess I’m a little bit impressed with myself! 😉

    There wasn’t much time or energy for me to read books in September. I had appointments with three different doctors and one with the optician plus a few other things. I definitely did not get enough rest and I’m still trying to recover, but October seems like it will be just as busy.

    I’m so excited for series two of Jane the Virgin!

    • Tanya Marlow 14th October, 2015 at 11:48 am #

      Lovely Rebecka! So nice to hear all about your September. I write everything down when I’ve read or watched it! Otherwise I’d never remember…

      And I’m so impressed you knitted a hat! That’s not just knitting, that’s creating an actual garment. My knitting career was over very briefly, before I reached the age of eight. I tried to knit a scarf and it turned into an anxious triangle..

      Three doctors visits and an optician is MASSES. I’d be wrecked if I did that… Hope you get to recover this month. Much love to you!

  4. Janice 7th October, 2015 at 3:41 pm #

    Hi Tanya! I’m always surprised when months fly by and new “What I’m Into” posts start cropping up. When I saw yours I thought “Oh yes, it’s October now!” Only to realize we’re already a week in. Perhaps I should put my calendar somewhere more noticeable…

    My September was a blur. I don’t think I read much or watched much. The kids started back to real fall school schedule, so I’m neck deep in homeschooling. I always like the fall, though. All the books are new and everyone’s excited about their new topics for the year. And looking back I realized that a year ago, Belle was painfully sounding out words one letter at a time, and now she’s sitting all by herself devouring book after book and it makes me so happy. Learning to read is just the best.

    I hope you’ve been enjoying the fall. Are your trees changing yet? We Took a trip to Glacier National Park last week and the trees were changing and it was breathtaking. I know there are a lot of people who don’t like fall since they days are growing shorter, but I’ve always thought it looked magical that the trees are all turning fantastic colors. Makes you think that maybe you could see the fairies you imagined hiding in the golden leaves when you were a child, if you could just focus your eyes right.

    • Tanya 8th October, 2015 at 10:03 am #

      “Oh yes, it’s October now!” Only to realize we’re already a week in. – ME TOO. (Hence why the post was the last one on Leigh Kramer’s link-up…)

      September was a complete blur for me, too. I’ve done lots of writing, but not really seen many people. Oh gosh – homeschooling – I didn’t know you were doing that! That is HARD. I always have a deep respect for anyone who can pull off being a teacher to their kids. My Mum was a teacher, but she was the only teacher we didn’t really listen to, because she was our mum, so… It’s amazing how your little girl is now at the devouring book stage! I love that stage.

      I’m one of those who’s always struggled with autumn and winter. I’m much more of a Spring-Summer girl. But these days I am trying to embrace the seasons a little more. I love love love your perspective on it – you do make it sound kinda magical. The trees can’t work out whether it’s still summer or proper autumn yet, because September has been so lovely, but I reckon they’ll get dramatic soon. When I lived in Durham, for university, I remember loving the autumn colours. There was a little path I walked down from college to lectures, and there was this overhanging tunnel of beautiful trees. In autumn that was kinda magical – crisp and cold, but bright. Thanks for that memory! I’m going to enjoy chewing on that this morning. 🙂

      • Nick 8th October, 2015 at 11:34 am #

        Personally, I’m mainly into hiding at the moment. Not sure precisely why…
        As for seasons, I love ’em. Winter is the time you rely more on your roots than your leaves…

  5. Sipech 7th October, 2015 at 1:33 pm #

    I am slowly coming round to your book. Just finishing Albert Schweitzer’s ‘The Quest of the Historical Jesus’ which seems to have taken an age to get through. Am hoping yours is (relatively) light relief in comparison.

    For TV, the 2nd series of The Returned is coming soon. If you haven’t seen the 1st series, I highly recommend it. Well-paced, atmospheric and a bit creepy, it’s thoroughly human and a fascinating insight into community under stress.

    • Tanya 8th October, 2015 at 9:58 am #

      Now that’s a long quest… Have you found him yet? 🙂
      With most people I would hesitate about calling my book ‘light relief’, but in this case – yes, definitely. Enjoy!

      I’ve vaguely heard of The Returned – but it sounded a bit ghosty for me. I get SCARED by ghost stories…

      Thanks for stopping by! I always enjoy seeing your familiar whiskers.

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